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VEGAS!

2011-11-24T01:26:00.000-07:00

Went to Vegas last weekend with two friends and my awesome sister! Here are just a few pics of our adventures :)

(Krystina wanted to be strapped in and closed into the closet bed...it was quite hilarious!

I just love my little sister! She is my best friend and I'm so glad she went with me!

The whole reason we went to Vegas was for the Katy Perry concert at Mandalay Bay. We didn't take our camera into the concert...for which we are very much regretting cause it was such an amazing show! But this was our before the concert picture...getting ready to go out for the night :)

Deer Hunt 2011

2011-11-16T21:44:00.000-07:00

This is a little late but we went to the deer hunt this year...well---correction...the BOYS went to the hunt...us girls only joined them for ONE short evening for a DUTCH OVEN dinner. We got to sleep in our nice,warm, soft beds, while the boys froze their little buns off in the cold! The dinner was delicious! The boys cooked it for us and it really was fun to just get away for a little bit. But I was very thankful to come home to my bed after being fed by Dad and Todd :)

My funny and cute daddy!

Kathleen frozen by the fire

Pretty sunset

Todd and Kath

Of course Kathleen was the first to dish up her plate!

Love my sister in law :)

Adorable Mommy

Me and Mom in our Univ. of Tennesee gear!

Love my 'lil Bro!

Aww gotta love that face!

Pumpkins!!

2011-10-30T23:48:00.000-06:00

Halloween is my FAVORITE!!! This was our punkin' carving fun and Todd's birthday activity!!

I love that Todd has a birthday that falls the day before Halloween (even if he hates it haha), there is always so much to do and we have so much fun.

Kathleen was the ring leader...she made sure we got our pumpkins...

and she was the first to start carving hers!

Mom getting hers ready

Me cleaning the nasty-ness out of mine

This was the finished product of my hard work!! :)

Dad actually broke out the power tools to do his!

The poor little Clementine is about to be devoured by moms scary pumpkin!

Todd and Dad finished very last...they take this very seriously :P

Happy 25th Birthday Bro!

A Real Man...

2011-10-15T23:26:00.004-06:00

My dating life would be A LOT different if there were actually men that learned this...

To L. & J.

2011-10-07T00:08:00.002-06:00

You've been on my mind, I grow fonder every day

Lose myself in time just thinking of your face

God only knows why it's taken me so long to let my doubts go

You're the only one that I want

I don't know why I'm scared, I've been here before

Every feeling, every word, I've imagined it all

You'll never know if you never try

To forget your past and simply be mine

I dare you to let me be your, your one and only

Promise I'm worthy to hold in your arms

So come on and give me a chance

To prove I am the one who can walk that mile

Until the end starts

If I've been on your mind, you hang on every word I say

Lose yourself in time at the mention of my name

Will I ever know how it feels to hold you close

And have you tell me whichever road I choose you'll go

I don't know why I'm scared 'cause I've been here before

Every feeling, every word, I've imagined it all

You'll never know if you never try

To forget your past and simply be mine

I dare you to let me be your, your one and only

Promise I'm worthy to hold in your arms

So come on and give me a chance

To prove I am the one who can walk that mile

Until the end starts

I know it ain't easy giving up your heart

Nobody's perfect

(I know it ain't easy giving up your heart)

Trust me, I've learned it

So I dare you to let me be your, your one and only

I promise I'm worthy to hold in your arms

So come on and give me a chance

To prove I am the one who can walk that mile

Until the end starts

Come on and give me a chance

To prove I am the one who can walk that mile

Until the end starts

Words of wisdom

2011-10-02T23:35:00.000-06:00

"Never ignore a person that loves you, cares for you, and misses you.

Because one day, you might wake up from your sleep

and realize that you lost the moon while counting stars.”

Awake

2011-08-15T22:46:00.001-06:00

So this song has almost perfectly described my feelings about a lot of different situations in the last little bit. I'm constantly thinking them in my head. I have decided I am very grateful for people that can actually write about things that I find hard to describe. This song, like I said applies to quite a few different things I have been experiencing so I thought I'd share it with the blog world.

Awake

Josh Groban

A beautiful and blinding morning

The world outside begins to breathe

See clouds arriving without warning

I need you here to shelter me

And I know that only time will tell us how

To carry on without each other

So keep me awake to memorize you

Give me more time to feel this way

We can't stay like this forever

But I can have you next to me today

If I could make these moments endless

If I could stop the winds of change

If we just keep our eyes wide open

Then everything would stay the same

And I know that only time will tell me how

We'll carry on without each other

So keep me awake for every moment

Give us more time to be this way

We can't stay like this forever

But I can have you next to me today

We'll let tomorrow wait, you're here, right now, with me

All my fears just fall away, when you are all I see

We can't stay like this forever

But I have you here today

And I will remember

Oh I will remember

Remember all the love we shared today

JOSH GROBAN!

2011-08-09T00:52:00.000-06:00

I HAVE 2 JOSH GROBAN CONCERT TICKETS FOR SALE!

The concert is this Saturday at the ESA. If you're interested let me know ASAP! :)

Seriously so worth it.. I have seen him twice and it is an amazing show!!! Come have fun!!!

Yeah for weddings!!!

2011-08-05T00:11:00.000-06:00

My bestest cousin Brad got married!! We just love Kristi and are so glad

he made her part of our family.

Their sealing ceremony at the Bountiful temple was awesome and I'm

so happy and blessed that I could be there for it!

I love them!

CONGRATS BRAD & KRISTI!!!

TEAM ASHLEE

2011-08-03T21:40:00.000-06:00

Hey everyone! Ashlee is the sister of one of my very good friends that fell victim to domestic abuse. They are selling t-shirts to help with the medical costs. If you want one to help her and show your support to end domestic violence let me know and I'll be happy to get you one!!!

GO ASHLEE!!!

St. George Fun

2011-07-14T00:47:00.000-06:00

A couple weekends ago Mom, Dad, Holly and I went to St. George. We went to Tuacahn Theatre while we were there, did some shopping, and just relaxed. It was so great! (AND HOT--not a fan of 105 in the middle of the day-just sayin') I love my family and love vacations with them. Here's some pics from our adventure :)

Holly and Me in the backseat...we were like two little kids and I'm sure the parents were thinking we were crazy---but we kept dad awake on the drive :)

The first night we saw Disney's The Little Mermaid at Tuacahn! It was so so so amazing!! Seriously...I still am in awe of how good it was....

This was the dude that played King Triton. Wow! hee-hee

Mom and Dad at dinner before the show

Us with Sebastian..yes we were so silly getting pictures with the actors. Lol.

Dad joining us on our shopping trip the next morning...

At The Little Mermaid

Awww...cute parents.

So...we went swimming after we couldn't spend anymore money Saturday afternoon. Us three girls went to the pool while Dad went to buy me sunblock that I forgot..haha. But when he finally got back, he brought me the sunblock, then went back up to our room to change and come join us, twenty minutes later he still wasn't down yet and we were wondering where the heck he was....then----he finally emerged and this is what took him so long....

We bought nail polish that changes colors in the sun so he decided he needed to try it out. Lol.

He tried 2 of the 4 colors we bought. But hey! It works! The left foot was silver then changed red in the light and the right foot was green and changed purple!!

We also saw Grease the next night at Tuacahn. It was good....but still not as amazing as The Little Mermaid.

This is my favorite one!! ;)

We stopped the temple on our way home. One of the funnest vacations ever :)

Waterfall Canyons

2011-06-11T14:00:00.000-06:00

My friend Krystina and I decided to go for a hike the other day...we probably could have picked an easier one, but at least this one had an ending that was way worth the pain and short-of-breath-ness. :)

At the beginning..we looked somewhat put together. :)

We thought this was the waterfall...until this cute older lady informed us we had about 30 more minutes of hiking (which was basically rock climbing) to go. (we are starting to look a little disheveled here haha)

We FINALLY made it...we were pooped, our legs were shaking and we (or at least I) didn't think I could move ever again. But man...it was obviously worth it!

I loved feeling the cool air and sprinkles of the water come down on us. It was amazing!!

I'm definately not a hiking/outdoorsy girl, but if all hikes had this ending I might be able to get into it!

Baby Blankets...

2011-06-11T13:52:00.000-06:00

So lately I have become an 80 year old woman that is obsessed with crochetting baby blankets!! This was my official first blanket...and I must say it turned out sooo freaking cute! I just love it! (ps.sorry the pictures are sideways)

Work ?

2011-05-24T14:03:00.000-06:00

So I'm not sure what you do at your job when you are having a slow day....this is what we do---

Okay...we really do work and take care of babies...but at 3 am---you have to find something to keep yourself awake! HAHA :)

2011-02-22T00:26:00.004-07:00

Lately I'm really struggling to feel like this....

Because I really feel like this

I hate it. But I can't seem to snap out of it. I've tried everything---and I mean everything!! So I figure I haven't posted anything in a while...and this is pretty much why...there is nothing happy or exciting in my life to write about right now. I'm pretty boring and pretty pathetic. Hopefully one day (and hopefully soon) I'll have some happy thoughts..but for now-this is all I got.

Last Moments

2011-01-07T00:52:00.003-07:00

This time we were so blessed to be able to say our good-byes and spend some wonderful time with dear Grandpa and take some pictures.

Grandpa & Holly

One of grandpa's last requests was he wanted to eat a twinkie! Lol.

So we made sure he got one :)

Holly & I in the hospital waiting area during our hospital vigil.

Me & Grandpa

Todd, Kathleen & cute Grandpa

We are so blessed to have had (and still have) amazing grandparents who left such an incredible legacy for us to follow. The last three and a half months have been some of the most trying and difficult of our lives, but we have still found some silver linings in the darkened clouds. Thank goodness for good friends and neighbors, the many prayers on our behalf and the tender mercies from the Lord. We are greatly blessed.

RANT

2010-11-23T23:19:00.002-07:00

Its not the snow that the weather people are saying is dangerous...its the arctic air that is coming with it! That's why this storm is a bad one...geez..I'm so glad the general public is so much more smarter than the people that actually know what they are doing! Seriously!!! And if they wouldn't have warned you and you sat at home with your power out and nothing to eat it would have been their fault...so aren't you just slightly glad maybe they did over react a little so that you would be safe....isn't that what EMERGENCY PREPARDNESS is about!! Being prepared for the bad...even if it doesn't come!? UGH!

2010-09-20T13:08:00.002-06:00

We will miss you Grandma. We love you! How lucky and blessed we are to know that it is not the end, just the end for now. And now we have another guardian angel to keep us in line. We have been forever changed by your love and support for all these years. And while our hearts are breaking that you were taken in such a tragic and unexpected way, we know you are still with us and we will be okay. Love you forever!

Good-bye Elder Baxter!

2010-08-15T22:16:00.004-06:00

Tate is officially Elder Baxter now! YEAH! He left Wednesday August 11 for the MTC. We are so excited for him to spend the next two years serving the Lord and the people of the Minnesota Minneapolis Mission. After his setting apart on Tuesday night, it is very apparent that the Lord has some great things in store for him and that he is much loved and trusted by his Father in Heaven. So here are just a few pictures of the morning we dropped him off at the MTC.

Unexpected Comfort

2010-07-13T04:30:00.004-06:00

There have been many days where I have felt the presence of the Spirit so strong that I know without a doubt that God exists. And I have experienced many days where the spirit of the Holy Ghost is absent and I have questioned everything I thought I knew. Because of those experiences in my life, I have tried so very hard to stay close to the Book of Mormon. Especially in the last 8 months, I have tried so diligently to read. I have been so blessed by this effort. While I already knew of the great power this small book held, my testimony of it has been greatly enhanced and reaffirmed.

The Prophet Joseph Smith said: "...a man would get nearer to God by abiding by its precepts, than by any other book."

How true that simple statement is!

The last few weeks have been full of ups and downs, bumps in the road, moments of hope followed by days of sorrow. Again I find that while the sorrow still remains, if I stay close to this amazing book, the sting is not as great.

I was reading the other morning while at work, searching and praying for some comfort. Something to give me direction. A small glimmer of something to get me through. As I read, not really into it at 2 am in the morning in between caring for patients at the hospital, I came across such a tender mercy. A verse that while so small, gave me the moment, that glimmer of hope that I needed.

"KNOW YE NOT THAT YE ARE IN THE HANDS OF GOD?..."

--Mormon 5:23

There it was. So simple. Yet so full of hope and promise. It pretty much sums up everything. Anything that you may be dealing with in your own life, just remember...you are in the hands of God. He is your Father. He loves you. He will not leave you.

The day before I had read 3 Nephi 22:7

"For a small moment have I forsaken thee, but with great mercies will I gather thee."

When I read those together, my heart is filled with peace.

My sorrow, if only for a moment is put to rest.

I pray that anyone who also may be having a moment of despair or struggle can find some glimmer of light and comfort in these amazing verses!

Remember the words of dear Elder Holland:

"Some blessings come soon, some come late,

and some don't come until heaven;

but for those who embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ, they come....

It will be all right in the end. Trust God and believe in good things to come."

Oakley Rodeo

2010-07-06T00:55:00.002-06:00

To celebrate Grandma Carter's birthday and the 4th we went to the Oakley Rodeo with the whole family. It was so much fun! So here's a couple pics of us cowboy-in' it up ;)

Playing catch up.....Birthday

2010-06-06T23:44:00.003-06:00

So its taken me forever to post something worth while...mostly because I really dont ever do anything..haha...but here is a couple pics from my birthday. This year I turned 26. And yes while it is still "young" I feel old a lot of days. So this year,my awesome bestest friends and I went to Beyond Spa to get massages (which were incredible) and I'm sad didn't get pics of us there :( then we went to Olive Garden for lunch. They are truly the best! Thanks girls for making my day special!

Mara & Me (she handed this gift bag to me for my "present" and when I told her she didn't need to do that she just laughed...when I opened it, inside was the cookie pan and spatula I took to work one day that I asked her to take home so I wouldnt lose them..ridiculous. lol)

Mara, Michelle, & Me (not pictured Tressa who went with us for massages)

I love these girls!!!

Michelle & Me

Gem of the day...

2010-05-16T19:34:00.000-06:00

Be Patient with Yourself

“We should learn to be patient with ourselves. Recognizing our strengths and our weaknesses, we should strive to use good judgment in all of our choices and decisions, make good use of every opportunity, and do our best in every task we undertake. We should not be unduly discouraged nor in despair at any time when we are doing the best we can. Rather, we should be satisfied with our progress even though it may come slowly at times.”

Joseph B. Wirthlin,

What I want (and need)...

2010-05-03T11:02:00.001-06:00

The Male Brain...lol

2010-04-22T14:56:00.004-06:00

FOR SALE....

2010-04-20T06:17:00.001-06:00

FOR SALE!.... 2006 Mazda 3. Great condition!. $9900. Talk to me soon if interested!

Dreams...or nightmares??

2010-04-03T11:59:00.003-06:00

Okay..yes this was the main subject in my dream last night...and thats all I can remember that there were a ton of pineapples...

2010-04-01T07:29:00.003-06:00

I HEART OMELETTES!

Music and peace

2010-03-29T14:45:00.004-06:00

I have had a lot on my mind of late. And in the past when I needed to cope with frustration, anger, sadness, etc I would sit down at the piano and play out all my emotions. But there has been very few times where I actually get emotional when playing the piano. And more recently I just dont take the time to sit and hone in my skills..haha. I'm just too busy and honestly, it can be physically demanding to play the piano for a while and I'm just not in that kind of shape. (I know I just have to sit there and move my fingers, but its exhausting). So I found it strange this weekend thats all I felt drawn to do. Just play. The first few songs were...well lets just say I'm pretty out of practice. But then after warming up I was starting to feel comfortable. Last night I sat down after dinner and just played around. I started playing this one song, determined to play it perfectly. Its a beautiful piece, and I found myself in this magical bubble. The whole family was around, but it was only me and my piano and music. Before I knew it I was so overcome with emotion...I dont know if it was everything that has been on my heart and mind lately coming to the surface, but there I was bawling my eyes out as I finished the piece. Then today after a sleepless night, I still felt drawn to pour out my emotion on the keys of my piano. So I sat today and played and played til my poor back couldn't take it any longer. Then I just sat and cried and cried. Now dont go and get all worried people, its good for a girl to just cry it out even when there really is nothing wrong. While I found myself lately questioning a lot of things, there is no doubt power and comfort from the Holy Spirit through music. And maybe my preyers aren't being answered like I want them to be, but at least for that moment my heartache was freed and I felt peace.

On my mind...

2010-03-29T02:08:00.002-06:00

“He [Heavenly Father] is our perfect Father. He loves us beyond our capacity to understand. He knows what is best for us. He sees the end from the beginning. He wants us to act to gain needed experience:

“When He answers yes, it is to give us confidence.

“When He answers no, it is to prevent error.

“When He withholds an answer, it is to have us grow through faith in Him, obedience to His commandments, and a willingness to act on truth.” -Richard G. Scott

“Access to our Creator through our Savior is surely one of the great privileges and blessings of our lives. I have learned from countless personal experiences that great is the power of prayer. No earthly authority can separate us from direct access to our Creator. There can never be a mechanical or electronic failure when we pray. There is no limit on the number of times or how long we can pray each day. There is no quota of how many needs we wish to pray for in each prayer. We do not need to go through secretaries or make an appointment to reach the throne of grace. He is reachable at any time and any place.” James E. Faust

Thought of the week....

2010-03-21T23:41:00.000-06:00

“I want to be remembered as the girl who always smiles even when her heart is broken, and the one that could always brighten up your day even if she couldn't brighten her own.”

My New Adventure...

2010-03-07T00:09:00.003-07:00

I've pretty much done everything there is to do with my hair...blonde, black, brown and everything in between. Short, long, medium. Straight, curly, etc. But I've never done extensions...mostly becuase of the cost and also because the thought kinda scared me...they could turn out horrible- like Kate Gosslin's ugly do!! But I had such a good deal come my way that I just had to try it out...so here are some pics of my new do, which I love and am enjoying soooo much. And frankly, mine are much better than Kate Gosslin's and I didn't even pay anything close to her $7000 disaster! ;)

Now taking reservations.....

2010-02-27T13:14:00.003-07:00

I'm now taking reservations for your Spring & Summer Wedding Videography needs!!!

Contact me ASAP for my Spring Special!

2010-02-24T06:23:00.001-07:00

Lorelai: Heh, you know what I just realized? "Oy" is the funniest word in the entire world.
Rory: Hmm.
Lorelai: I mean think about it, you never hear the word "oy" and not smile. Impossible. Funny, funny word.
Emily: Oh dear God.
Lorelai: "Poodle" is another funny word.
Emily: Please drink your drink, Lorelai.
Lorelai: In fact, if you put "oy" and "poodle" together, in the same sentence, you'd have a great new catchphrase, you know? Like, "Oy with the poodles already."
Rory: Hehe.
Lorelai: So from now on, when the perfect circumstances arise, we will use our favorite new catchphrase:
Rory: Oy with the poodles already.
Lorelai: I'm telling you, it's knocking "Whatchu talkin' 'bout, Willis?" right out of first place.

Thought of the day....

2010-02-14T22:25:00.002-07:00

Sometimes the one you think is your knight and shining armor, is just a retard in tinfoil!

2010-02-11T22:02:00.003-07:00

My heart, love, and prayers go out to the Toone Family during this time and also to the Staker Family. May the Lord continue to bless and be with you!

This is the Staker's Blog and it is amazing!!
http://stakerzxposed.blogspot.com/2010_02_01_archive.html

Sad Sad ..... I need your help

2010-01-11T12:03:00.001-07:00

So I was editing my blog and somehow lost everyones blog addresses....so I'd really like to get them back so if you could please leave a comment with your blog address attached so I can fix this horrendous mistake!! :(

Putting up Christmas

2009-11-23T15:22:00.004-07:00

This weekend I made the family put up Christmas lights, because...number one: I knew the snow was coming and if we didn't do it before that, then I knew it wouldn't happen at all...and number two: we didn't do it last year so I was going to make sure that it definately happened this year! I love Christmas lights! Hardly anyone does it anymore...holiday poops. Remember the good ol' days...like when all of Gentile was all lit up and everyone would drive down the road at night...way too slowly of course, but still that was the best. I miss those days when people actually got excited for the Holidays. Now days it seems like everyone dreads it, because of the retail craziness or the buying of gifts, whatever the reason, I miss it when everyone had their houses lit up and we couldn't wait for everything to start. I call for everyone, everywhere to try and enjoy this season...its up to you how you act and deal with the Christmas spirit. We must remember that it isn't about buying or honestly, even the giving of gifts isn't important. Its a celebration of the Savior and of loving one another, enjoying being with family and friends, loving every minute of the special feeling that can come if you let it!! So here are some pictures of our preparations.

I serioulsy didn't even get ready for the day....thats the reason I look ill....

Okay, I thought Tate was going to roll off the roof he was laughing so hard. When I looked up Dad was relaxing like this, so I asked him what magazine he was posing for and Tate about lost it!

I can't tell if they are arguing here, or discussing the best way to attach the shingle thingies to the lights...either way its a precious moment. haha

Working hard

I don't know where Tate thinks he's going to run to.

Catch up....

2009-10-28T14:29:00.012-06:00

So October has been a crazy month for me....lots of happenings. Here is a review....the first weekend I talked my friend Beth into going on a road trip to San Fransisco with me...it was a blast...the best weekend I've had in a long time...one I will surely never forget ;) This is just a little of what we did. THANKS BETH FOR EVERYTHING!!!

The next weekend I was supposed to go to Omaha to visit a friend and while there was going to go to Nauvoo...unfortunatey I had to cancel because of some unforseen circumstances. Sad :( But I plan to go out as soon as I can swing it...hopefully soon. So those pictures will just have to be shown when I actually have them. haha

The next weekend I went to Wendover with some girls from work. It was a blast!! It was a much needed fun weekend away after a stressful couple weeks before that. So thanks to Aleisha especially and Makalah for that! (yes that is when I went to Chippendales...which was HILARIOUS, not gross)

Thanks to all the girls that have made this past month amazing!!! I love you all!!!

2009-10-18T23:59:00.002-06:00

Okay this is the last one...this is my other favorite song. Its such an emotional song, I love it. You can't see Katie in this video, but its okay its still amazing!

2009-10-18T23:54:00.001-06:00

This is my favorite song lately...one that almost perfectly describes some of my feelings lately.

2009-10-18T23:48:00.001-06:00

This is who I've been listening to almost constantly lately!! Everyone should check it out! I love Katie Thompson!

A Priceless Miracle and Glorious Miracle

2009-10-16T02:55:00.000-06:00

"There is a glorious miracle awaiting every soul who is prepared to change. Repentance and forgiveness make a brilliant day of the darkest night. When souls are reborn, when lives are changed—then comes the great miracle to beautify and warm and lift. When spiritual death has threatened and now instead there is resuscitation, when life pushes out death—when this happens it is the miracle of miracles. And such great miracles will never cease so long as there is one person who applies the redeeming power of the Savior and his own good works to bring about his rebirth. . . . "The essence of the miracle of forgiveness is that it brings peace to the previously anxious, restless, frustrated, perhaps tormented soul. In a world of turmoil and contention this is indeed a priceless gift." --Spencer W. Kimball

This has given me such hope and peace. What a blessing it is to have this amazing gift to help us in our lives!

"An High Priest of Good Things To Come

2009-10-09T22:41:00.001-06:00

Okay this is my favorite talk ever given. It has helped me through so much. As I have been needing heavens help recently, this talk has been on my mind every day. So I would like to share. Listen or read it. Its aweseome!!

An High Presit of good things to come

Grey's

2009-09-22T15:20:00.001-06:00

Grey's Anatomy Season Premeire

2009-09-22T15:17:00.003-06:00

All right...if you know me you know I LOVE LOVE LOVE Grey's Anatomy! So this Thursday is the season premeire. If you would like to join me for this monumental event let me know. I will be hosting a party!!!! Thursday night starting at 7:30 pm. Call me...text me...whatever...its going to be soooo good!!!

Can't Wait

2009-09-15T07:16:00.001-06:00

We Won't Ever Forget

2009-09-11T12:40:00.001-06:00

I am so grateful for those that have chosen to serve this amazing country. Whether by serving in the armed forces or the ones that just do what they are hired to do.

This truly is the Home of the Brave.

A Must See...

2009-09-06T00:11:00.004-06:00

Okay... really there are no words just make sure you go see

"All About Steve".

Not only are both Bradley Cooper and Sandra Bullock gorgeous,

but man I was laughing so hard! Its not the greatest movie ever,

but it is good for a laugh and a good time.

2009-09-05T02:18:00.001-06:00

"It is no small task to remain focused on the things of God in an often godless world, but we came from heaven with all the qualities required to accomplish this. Stay on the path of goodness, and there will be no opportunities lost and no blessings postponed. Do what is right, let the consequence follow, and all will be well."
---Kristin Oaks

2009-09-01T20:42:00.002-06:00

Great Advice

2009-08-30T03:10:00.004-06:00

I thought this was awesome advice...advice we should not only listen to but act upon!

"Be loyal to one another, your friends and associates. Look for the good in those about you, and emphasize that good. Never go around gossiping about your associates or speaking unkind words concerning them...What I am suggesting is that each of us turn from the negativism that so permeates our society and look for the remarkable good among those with whom we associate, that we speak of one another's virtues more than we speak of on another's faults, that optimism replace pessimism, that our faith exceed our fears." --Pres. Gordon B. Hinkley

This is something that I constantly think about. The past couple years I have worked really hard on looking at the good of other people, instead of the bad. Even when those people have really hurt me, I still see the good in them over the negative and I've found that it makes the biggest difference in me and my spirit, it sure makes it hard to hold a grudge against someone that annoys me or has really hurt me. It makes the hard stuff easier to process and handle. But I also have noticed that while I see the good in people, I am very pessimistic about life and human nature in general. Its funny though, because when other people around me are having hard times and are pessimistic about their circumstances, I hear myself telling them to look on the positive sides. Sometimes I dont tell them but I think about the good things that the situation hold. So maybe I'm actually "A realist, masquerading as a cynic, who is secretly an optimist."(from the movie HITCH, lol)

So in short....I'm truly trying to continue to find the VIRTUES in people, while being and looking for the optimism in lifes circumstances. something we should all be trying harder to do. If we all really truly take this advice from President Hinckley to heart, then the world will be a much better place. I'm positive we will find that as we try to find virtues and optimism, pretty soon "try to find" will be replaced by "always see". Everyone will be much happier and the Spirit of the Lord much closer to everyone we come in contact with. A worthy goal, yes? So lets do it!!!!!!!!

2009-08-29T02:21:00.003-06:00

Okay...seriously...shouldn't we have a judge on America's Got Talent....that is actaully talented?????

Thought for the upcoming weekend.....

2009-08-27T18:11:00.006-06:00

" "Salvation is not a cheap experience." We should remember that. Never let any trial stand between you and your allegiance to your Heavenly Father. Never let any unintended slight or insult separate you from partaking of the sacrament and lead you to spiritual weakness and possibly toward spiritual death. Hold FAST and remember what you know to be true. A friend said it better: "If I don't endure now, I'll have ETERNITY to think about why I didn't." "

Thought for the weekend....

2009-08-21T01:26:00.003-06:00

"All of us will experience difficult situations we desire to change. What the Lord may change is not our circumstances but our character. As our faith matures and or perspective broadens, our success in life can often be measured not in the outcomes we expected but in the attitudes we acquire--patience, love, caring, hope, and faith. We can measure our own progress by noting an increased capacity to be tolerant, to be spiritually in tune, to be in better control of our temper, to be more accepting and forgiving of those around us. We are meant not to mark time but to make it purposeful and make a mark on the world around us."

Something to think about

2009-08-19T04:38:00.002-06:00

From my previously talked about book, "In her novel The Face of a Strangeri, Anne Perry, herself a single, faithful Latter-day Saint woman, writes words that had significance to me. She writes of Hester, who is fast approaching age thrity, and the advice given her: "Do i detect a note of self-pity, Hester?...You will have to learn to conquer that....Too many women waste thier lives grieving because they do not have something other people tell them they should want. Nearly all married women will tell you it is a blessed state, and you are to be pitied for not being in it. That is arrant nonsense. Whether you are happy or not depends to some degree upon outward circumstances, but mostly it depends on how you choose to look at things yourself, whether you measure what you have or what you have not."

I love it!

Understanding...

2009-08-19T02:55:00.004-06:00

So I recently had a conversation with a newlywed person (who shall remain unnamed), and of course the direction of the conversation was surrounding the subject of how to talk to a 'single' person. It also happens that same day that I bought this book directed to single LDS women and how to be happy in such a family and marriage oriented religion. Its basically like I wrote the book..I feel almost 100% everything that Kristen Oaks wrote about. (Sister Oaks married Elder Oaks of the Twelve Apostles after she was 50 years old) Anyway, this person asked me how to talk to her single friends without offending them and making them feel like being single was a bad thing. (okay--remember I'm single here)...then she said that she didn't feel like single people realized how much busier married people are and that basically their lives just don't take as much energy and we just don't understand that lifestyle....so NUMBER ONE--(if you dont want to offend a single person, DO NOT make them feel like their time in life isn't worth as much just because they aren't married, DO NOT tell them that they don't understand what its like to be busy...because the TRUTH is, we are just as busy, your day doesn't take more energy than ours, but really a single persons PRIORITIES in life just differ from that of a married person.. That's all it really boils down to...different priorities. (Luckily, I really wasn't too offended and I told her that by telling her single friends things like that, no wonder she can't figure out how to talk to them).

Okay, so NUMBER TWO....just go buy this book....HECK I'll let you borrow it! As I've read this book, I really have come to a better understanding of myself and worth in the Lord's sight..single or married. I truly feel that EVERY PRIESTHOOD leader and MARRIED WOMAN and SINGLE WOMAN or MAN should read this book. It will give you insight to our feelings and our struggles in this 'Mormon' culture. So seriously...I'm not kidding....come borrow my book..ITS AWESOME!!! Its called "A Single Voice" by Kristen M. Oaks

Come one...come all....

2009-08-10T00:07:00.002-06:00

PIANO LESSONS

Beginning in September

Limited number of places open

Contact me ASAP if you are interested

in giving your child (or yourself) one of the greatest gifts ever...

The gift of music!

Just have to say...

2009-08-07T19:55:00.004-06:00

Okay I'm just going to say this because its seriously been bugging me. Its not meant to offend anyone I just have to get it off my chest..so

If you are planning a wedding or know someone that is planning a wedding you really shouldn't put your own wedding video together OR have a friend do it either. I'm just saying...yes they are expensive but they are so worth it, especially when they are of good quality! So with that in mind.... (and I promise I'm not trying to get business here, hire someone else for all I care) I do own a business for wedding videos. I do it all...slide shows, actual live footage, whatever you want. And honestly it will be much nicer and better quality than what you think you or your buddy can whip up.

I know it sounds like I'm trying to get business but it not the case...I just know of a few people that 'hired' their buddy or themselves to put together their video or they were too stubborn to ask me and frankly they sucked. Sorry but its true. So even if you think you can't afford it....call me and we can work something out...I promise....you wont be disappointed.

Okay I'm stepping off the soap box now.

One last thing....if this somehow inspired you to want to talk to me about your wedding video (or your friends) you can call my cell or email me at capturingalegacy@yahoo.com
And I don't do only weddings, I put other video presentations together as well....graduations, eagle scouts, family reunions, whatevery you want...I'll figure something AMAZING out just FOR YOU!! (okay that was me totally trying to get business ;)

Georgeous George

2009-07-18T16:41:00.004-06:00

Really there is not much to say...went to the George Strait concert last night.....what can I say but, AMAZING!! King George is one of the few that gets better looking and sounding with age so I'll just leave it at that....sigh.

I'll save all my ranting about driving drunk, sunburn pealing, crazy driving, and my new theories about life for another time...haha...lets just all savor this moment with George.

McKay Dee

2009-07-14T02:54:00.002-06:00

Most of you know that I recently transferred to McKay Dee from IMC. I started orienting there 2 weeks ago and now I'm offically ready to be on my own (even though I've been doing the exact same thing for 9 months already). Anyway, I still work on the postpartum (mother/baby) unit, which I still love! Everything is basically the same from IMC, except a few little things that I felt comfortable with in a matter of minutes. This move is a good one for many reasons...1- Instead of a 35 min commute I now only have a 15-20 min one. 2-The shifts are 5pm-5am, which works out better for school and such. At IMC I worked 7pm-7am. So by the time I got home I might as well just stay up and go to my class at 10am instead of being groggy....of course those that know me know that most of the time I just ended up skipping class because at that point I had usually been up for more than 24 hours! So the 5 to 5's will be great because most of my classes in the fall dont even start until 11am, so I'll actually get some sleep. 3-It sure has a better view than IMC ever did. I'd much rather see a beautiful fountain than the trax train when I look out the window. 4- I can get over time without feeling like its a sin. 5- When my friends have their babies here, I'll be able to take care of them now!!

So even though there are all these good things about transferring to McKay, I still am finding it hard to enjoy working here. I miss my friends at IMC, but I am making new ones here. I guess it will just take time (like any other job) to feel comfortable and in sync with every one else. But so far its been an okay decision. It can only get better!

Koda!

2009-06-17T22:50:00.004-06:00

Okay...most of you know that my dad and I have wanted a puppy for a long time, but my mom would not hear of it. Well today we saw some puppies for sale so we inquired about them. Of course mom said no at first. So Holly and I called back up....Todd and Kathleen said they would go in on the puppy...especially since he was so cheap compared to what most dogs sell for. So we all ganged up on her and she actually went for it. And just like we knew she would, she fell in love with him as soon as we brought him home. He's adorable. Kath wanted to name him Koda and we did. He is almost 8 weeks old, a lab/springer spaniel mix. So cute!! We love him already and he's been so well behaved, hopefully it will continue! Koda was bred to be a duck hunting dog so of course the boys are ecstatic to train him to go with them..we'll see if they actually do it. haha. Until then we are going to enjoy his cute puppiness!!

Tenneessee Travels

2009-06-15T15:21:00.004-06:00

Me and Dolly

Tara & I at the University of TN
Do I really need to tell you about this one?

The cute apartement I lived at in Marion.

It was so beautiful while I was there...blue skies and green hills! Miss it already.

Jenny and I.

2006 Mazda 3 For Sale

2009-06-09T10:53:00.003-06:00

I'm selling my car. Here are the details. 06 Mazda 3. Body is in great condition as is the interior. It will be in need of a rebuilt or new transmission in the next little while. We have had quotes on that repair and it might range from $2500-$3000. But it still drives great for now!! There is about 50,000 miles on it. Automatic windows, locks, CD, remote entry, great AC!, alloy rims. It gets fantastic gas mileage!! I bought it from the LDS church, it was a mission car. I love the car and am so sad to say good-bye to it, but the reason I'm selling it is that I just want to get out of debt a little quicker. I'm asking $12,000. I won't be ready to get rid of it until the end of the month so if you need time then thats fine.

For Sale

2009-06-08T23:36:00.001-06:00

So I'm thinking about selling my car. Its a 2006 Mazda 3. If anyone thinks they might be interested, then please let me know and I can tell you more about it. Pictures and details to come soon!

Tennessee

2009-06-04T20:46:00.001-06:00

Okay I had the best time in Tennessee last week!! I'm so happy I went. I am in a much better place. Anyway, I will post pictures soon!!

VACATION

2009-05-14T23:14:00.002-06:00

So I know I'm leaving in a week to go to Tennessee...but currently I'm dying to go to Disneyland!!!!!!!!!! Anyone want to join me!?!?!?!?!?!?!

Life Out There

2009-05-03T02:05:00.002-06:00

She thought she'd done some living, But now she's just wonderin' what she's living for. Now she's feeling that there's something more. Is there life out there, so much she hasn't done. Is there life beyond her family and her home. She's done what she should, should she do what she dares? She doesn't want to leave, she's just wonderin' is there life out there. She's always lived for tomorrow. She's never learned how to live for today. She's dyin' to try something foolish, do something crazy, or just get away. Something for herself for a change. Is there life out there? So much she hasn't done. Is there life beyond her family and her home? She's done what she should, should she do what she dares? She doesn't want to leave, she's just wonderin' is there life out there? There's a place in the sun that she's never been where life is fair and time is a friend. Would she do it the same as she did back then? She looks out the window and wonders again. Is there life out there, so much she hasn't done? Is there life beyond her family and her home? She's done what she should, should she do what she dares? She doesn't want to leave, she's just wonderin' is there life out there?

2009-04-21T23:02:00.003-06:00

I've always heard that witnessing someone die can be a spiritual experience and I've never really doubted it, but its one thing to hear about it and another to actually be there when it does happen. Today I was able to be present when my sweet grandfather passed away. It was a very touching moment. He passed on to his next life while the hymn, "Be Still My Soul" was playing in the background. It is something I will always remember. I'm so grateful that he is finally back with my grandma and they can be together forever. What a blessing it is to have this knowledge! The Gospel is true!! How wonderful that God loves us so much that he lets us live together forever with the ones we truly love. It should be a sad thing, but I'm truly happy for him and my grandma. My heart is at peace and I'm just grateful for the awesome experience I had today!

When I grow up...

2009-04-03T03:52:00.003-06:00

I've always been very interested in the life of Emma Smith, wife to the prophet Joseph Smith. Her strength and courage often overcomes me. I just cannot imagine having the life she had and being able to survive and survive with the faith and happiness that she did. Recently I watched the movie "Emma Smith: My Story". While not all of the timelines were accurate, I truly am touched by her faith in not only the gospel, but in her husband Joseph. Her good humor, patience, courage, and fortitude make me want to be like her.

She went through so much while on this earth, not only while she was married to Joseph, but after his death as well. It has always bothered me greatly when people say that she lost her faith, or that she turned her back on the Gospel. I truly believe this was not the case.

While on my mission, I read a very good Ensign article all about Emma and her life after Joseph's death. It was written by one of her ancestors and said how much she really did suffer after he was martyred. It said something like after all she had gone through, it wasn't that she didn't believe in the gospel anymore or that she didn't believe Brigham Young was to be the prophet or whatever other rumors people spread, but that she was so tired and worn out from all the hardships she had passed through that she just didn't feel the need or want to move yet again. I wish I could remember the month of that article because I would want everyone to read it.

Anyway, I don't think any of us can judge her state of mind after the prophets murder, or at anytime of her life for that matter. I mean, how many of us have lost more children that raised? Have been driven from home to home, city to city? Have taken people/strangers off the streat and given them our bed to sleep in? Have seen our husbands and loved ones beaten and ridiculed, then murdered in cold blood?

There is no way I could have the strength to live through all Emma Smith did. I only pray and hope that I can be like her as I grow up. With faith,patience, strength, courage, good humor, love and charity. She is an example to me and I hope to you.

Her mother-in-law Lucy Mack Smith said,

“I have never seen a woman in my life, who would endure every species of fatigue and hardship, from month to month, and from year to year,” she wrote, “with that unflinching courage, zeal, and patience, which she has ever done.”

Sorry this is getting so long, its just been on my mind for a while now. There is a song that I think describes my feelings about this. Its off the ablum "A Nashville Tribute to the Propeht Joseph".

EMMA
Written by Jason Deere
Never had an ordinary day

Never lived your life in an ordinary way

For everything you loved you paid a price

But you couldn’t let the world see you cry
Never had a moment of peace

Never felt the sunlight

When the worries set you free

Every time your life turned a page

It seemed like your heart might break
With the world on your shoulders

When the nights had grown colder

You seemed to weather every storm

With a queen’s grace

When you lost your husband

When you buried your children

I’m sure the angels stood in reverence as you prayed

How much can on heart take
Never had a day to call your own

When so many needed your warm heart as a home

Whispering a mother’s lullaby

As you sat alone by the fire
And I’m sure your heart breaks,

when some people still say

Somewhere down the line you lost your faith

How much can one heart take

TN here I come!!!

2009-03-22T06:12:00.005-06:00

So I've been dying to go back to Tennessee since I came home 2 years ago!!! And I finally am going to make it happen! I decided I just have to do it!! So May 20th-31st I'll be back where my heart is! (And I'll get to celebrate my 25th birthday while I'm there!!)

YEAH!

Wedding Day

2009-03-07T22:09:00.002-07:00

Here are pictures of Todd & Kathleen's Wedding Weekend!

We had a dinner the night before.

This is the head table.

The guest tables.

The wedding day at the Mt. Timpanogos Temple

Mr. & Mrs. Baxter

Countdown to wedding day

2009-03-02T23:01:00.002-07:00

Well there is only 4 days to go until Todd is an old married person!! Wow, time has really gone fast!!! I can't believe it. We got our dresses back (early) and now they are being altered (again) and we'll have them on Wednesday. Kathleen went to the temple for the first time on Saturday, it was a great session! Now we only have to pull the dinnr off and the wedding day!! I'm crossing our fingers that everything will still continue smoothly. The only thing that could potentially be a problem is the weather, but I'm really thinking it will be okay! Anyway, see you all on Friday.

Bridesmaid Dress Disaster

2009-02-22T02:59:00.003-07:00

Okay so the wedding plans have been pretty easy actually. Everything has pretty much just fallen into place. And of course we were talking about this the other day so something had to happen to put us in our places.
We ordered the bridesmaid dresses at the beginning of January so that they would have plenty of time to get here. (most dress manufacturers are in china and it was the chinese new year like all of january so we needed to order them on a special 4 week rush). Anyway, Latter-day Bride was supposed to call me the first week of February to tell me I could come pick them up...finally the second week I called them to find out if we had our dresses yet, they said they were and had been there for a few days. That should have tipped me off right there.
So on Presidents day, Mom, Holly, and I went to pick them up. I gave the sales girl my name at the front desk and waited for them to bring the dresses out. When they did, I about threw up! The dresses were Latte (like a gray-ish color). THEY WERE SUPPOSED TO BE CHOCOLATE BROWN!!!! So I tell the girl this and she just acts like "oh well these are your dresses." So I flipped out and told her she had two weeks to fix this mistake and it better be fixed! She leaves me in tears in the lobby and comes back like 10 minutes later telling me that they were talking to the manufacturer in China and that they could get the dresses to us on March 3rd at the latest. (The wedding is on March 6th!) So after being reassured and apologized to for another 30 minutes we left the store, with really only a hope that we will have the correct dresses by the wedding. How can a mistake like that happen you ask? I've asked the same thing. The only thing that anybody could come up with, is that the girl who ordered our dresses was new and assumed that she knew the color name of the dress we wanted. The funny thing was, was that we tried on the floor model and they were EXACTLY what we wanted...style and colors! So how you can mess that up is really beyond me. So here I sit with basically one week til the wedding and a horrible feeling we'll end up wearing ugly gray dresses that don't even match the rest of the wedding colors!! This is what I do know...if and when I get married I'm just going to elope. No one will know I'm getting married and I'll just show up with a ring on my finger!

Be Still My Soul

2009-01-29T01:36:00.001-07:00

Last year was a very eye opening and tough year for me. It seems that ever since I came home early from my mission with health issues I've been spiriling up and down and all around. Even two whole years later, I still feel like I don't have any answers to anything that has happened since then or more recently in the last year. I learned quickly who I could turn to in times of need, namely- my family and the Savior. The other day I was driving around running errands and this hymn started playing. (I highly suggest listening to the version that is on the "Reflections of Christ" soundtrack) I've always liked "Be Still My Soul", but as I listened intently to the words, I felt the spirit so strongly telling me that I do have the Lord on my side and He is guiding my path(past & future). I hope that everyone remembers this is true, no matter who you are the Lord loves you and is on your side! And remember-- "Some blessings come soon, some come late, and some don't come until heaven; but for those who embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ, they come."(Elder Jeffrey R. Holland)

Be still, my soul: The Lord is on thy side;
With patience bear thy cross of grief or pain.
Leave to thy God to order and provide;
In ev’ry change he faithful will remain.
Be still, my soul: Thy best, thy heav’nly Friend
Thru thorny ways leads to a joyful end.

Be still, my soul: Thy God doth undertake
To guide the future as he has the past.
Thy hope, thy confidence let nothing shake;
All now mysterious shall be bright at last.
Be still, my soul: The waves and winds still know
His voice who ruled them while he dwelt below.

Be still, my soul: The hour is hast’ning on
When we shall be forever with the Lord,
When disappointment, grief, and fear are gone,
Sorrow forgot, love’s purest joys restored.
Be still, my soul: When change and tears are past,
All safe and blessed we shall meet at last.

Gilmore Girls

2009-01-24T02:14:00.004-07:00

Hilarious, entertaining, addicting, fun! Really, what else can you say about Gilmore Girls?!

I'm quite saddened that it isn't on t.v. anymore...if you haven't seen it, I highly recommend it.

I have all 7 season and never get sick of them because the wit and clever dialogue keeps my head spinning. Lol.

Anyway, that's all I have tonight. Not much going on in life right now, sorry! ;)

5 am thoughts....

2009-01-16T05:26:00.003-07:00

Here I sit at work, with really only about 5 mintues to write the thoughts that are in my brain at the moment. So here it goes....
1. Maybe I should change the name of my wedding videographing company...any suggestions? Stick with Capturing a Legacy?....or something new?
2. As much as I love my job, I kind of want a new one...not sure what...because I really do love working graveyards and with newborns, but I need something a little more lucrative. I would love to be able to only work part time and do my videography full time so anyone need a wedding filmed anytime soon????
3. Why are there only married doctors around here?
4. Why do people ask stupid questions in my math class? They only confuse themselves more and then start confusing other people that understood it in the first place. LISTEN TO THE TEACHER!!!! FOCUS!! Then maybe seemingly difficult concepts would actually make sense.
5. I really need to memorize my drivers license number.
6. I'm so excited I finished some wedding videos I've been trying to finsh for sometime now, but everytime I tried to finish them something would stop me...such as the computer crashing, the programs I need not working properly, the printer not printing. But alas, my rage paid off and everything is done now! YEAH!
8. I want to go to the temple...but when I ask?
7. How can get to my bed faster than normal? When my shift is done this morning I really just want to crash in a hospital room but we are FULL...YES FULL. TOO MANY PEOPLE HAD TOO MANY BABIES TONIGHT. I'm exhausted. Is it possible I could drive any faster than normal? Highly unlikely I think at this point.

Okay I'm done. Sorry for the randomness....but seriously you're input on the business stuff would be truly insightful I think. Leave your comments below! ;-)

I think I do my best thinking in the middle the night!! Don't you? (being very sarcastic)

2009---The Beginning

2009-01-09T03:20:00.003-07:00

Well, the first week of 2009 is pretty much over and I still have yet to come up with some good new years resolutions. Of course I have the basics in my head such as "lose weight", "find a husband", "stop drinking Dr. Pepper", "figure out what I'm supposed to be when I grow up", you know all that fun stuff. But I've decided I really need to come up with some good ones!! Lol. I think they need to be more specific, not necessarily realistic though. Such as, "lose 20 pounds (at least) by Todd's wedding in March", "Replace Dr. Pepper with a REAL rich Doctor that is also looking for a wife so I don't have to pick a career and I can live off his hard work"(that takes care of both the husband and becoming something when I grow up and the Dr. Pepper).
Seriously though, I did come up with some real resolutions.
1. Read the Book of Mormon (if not for myself, but to help Tate get ready for a mission, which he only has about 5 months before he puts in his papers..ahhhh!!)
2. Actually go the gym at least twice a week, preferably 3 times. (I mean I pay the place! I should start to get my money's worth!)
3. Go back to Tennessee before the end of the year.
4. Get out of debt.

So that's about all I can come up with for now. HAPPY NEW YEAR!! I hope you all can come up with equally ridiculous resolutions to fail at this year as well!!! ;)

Pretty funny...and true

2008-12-31T01:57:00.000-07:00

Okay so I found this blog that is quite hilarious and there was this post about being a single mormon and i just have to post it!! I'm not being bitter ;) but this really is so funny!!!

Mormons Like Setting Up Single Mormons

After high school, the only way for Mormons to avoid having other Mormons constantly try to set them up on blind dates is to get married, leave the church, or come out of the closet. Granted, there is a season of respite if a Mormon chooses to become a Mormon missionary because missionaries do not (or perhaps I should say "should not") date while on missions. However, once the missionary finishes his or her mission, he or she should prepare for the onslaught of reentering the dating pool as fresh meat.

Make no mistake about it. It is difficult to be a single Mormon. There are a number of reasons for this. Some of them stem from the import Mormons place on marriage and families. However, a big chunk of the difficulties experienced by single Mormons come from other Mormons inadvertently driving single Mormons absolutely loony. This occurs in many ways, but the persistence of Mormons in trying to set up Mormon singles certainly adds to the chances of single Mormons becoming clinically insane.

How does this happen? Imagine the following conversation between a Mormon married couple while eating dinner at the Cheesecake Factory.

Mormon Guy: "Boy, this snickers cheesecake sure is good."

Mormon Woman: "Yeah... I wish we could find someone for my friend DeAnne."

Mormon Guy: "Yeah. Can I have a bite of your cheesecake?"

Mormon Woman [shoveling a spoonful of cheesecake towards her husband]: "What do you think about lining her up with your friend Bill?"

Mormon Guy: "I don't know... I guess I can see that... Are you going to finish your--"

Mormon Woman [interrupting]: "I mean don't you think they would be perfect together. They are both such good members of the church. They would be so cute. Tell me something I don't know about him."

Mormon Guy: "Um, are you going to finish your cheesecake?"

Mormon Woman: "No, go ahead."

Mormon Guy: [Chewing... Swallowing...] "He really like sports."

Mormon Woman: "Oh, DeAnne hates sports."

Mormon Guy: "That is probably no big deal. He works so much, he can't watch them much anyways."

Mormon Woman: "It always drove DeAnne nuts how much her last boy friend worked. And, when he wasn't working, she complained that he often wanted to watch sports instead of do other things."

Mormon Guy: "Shwee ditted..."

Woman [interrupting]: "Honey, you know I can't understand you when you talk with your mouth full."

Mormon Guy: [Chewing... Swallowing...] "She dated a guy like that? It sounds like Bill really is her type."

Mormon Woman: "They would be so cute together! Let's set them up."

Given this story, it might be surprising that Mormons have very high standards when setting up other Mormons. The two people must meet three strict criteria: (1) both are Mormons; (2) both are single; and (3) the two are of the opposite sex. Beyond this, it doesn't really matter whether the two have anything in common, whether they live in the same state, or even whether they would actually be a good match. Granted, if the two would look cute together, Mormons would consider this a plus. I also note, that relatives--particularly grandparents or caring aunts--look to set up Mormon relatives with Mormon professionals. (If you don't get the gist, think "Matchmaker, matchmaker find me a mo.")

What should Mormons expect on blind dates? In many cultures, blind dates are nothing more than going out for coffee in the middle of the day. This is not the case for Mormons. Part of this is because Mormons don't drink coffee. But most of this comes from the fact that during high school, many Mormons come to see beauty in marathon dates. After a few years of really, really long dates, it is hard to revert to meeting for a half hour in the middle of the day. So, if you are on a blind date as a Mormon, get ready for a long ordeal. This may be great when the date is fun. However, when it is not so fun, Mormons will have the opportunity to develop patience.

What is the mood of Mormon blind dates? Ideally it would be a pretty casual deal. However, in reality it can be a bit of a pressure cooker. Those setting up other Mormons have expectations--namely that the two will fall immediately in love and find each other as eternal companions no later than the first date. And, those doing the setting up can even feel a little disappointed if it does not work out. I mean, it seemed so clear that the two that were set up would have made such a cute couple. In some cases, particularly in the case of the guy who was set up, Mormons can have some hard feelings if things don't work out.

It should also be noted that Mormons do not feel any social awkwardness in setting up other Mormons. Does it matter that the person wanting to set you up is a church leader? No. What if he or she was was a boss at work? No. But a gynecologist would never set up a patient, right? Wrong. If the person doing the setting up and those being set up acknowledge each other's Mormonism, that is about all that matters.

* I would like to thank a couple of people who gave me advice for this post. Particularly, I thank a friend in business school in New York and an online friend, WhiteEyebrows, for their collective advice regarding this post. It was helpful to get the perspective of single Mormons, particularly because one is a girl and one is guy. Actually, now that I think about it... How would the two of you feel about me setting the two of you up? I mean seriously, you two would make a really cute couple!

"Business Time"

2008-12-20T08:38:00.005-07:00

This is so hilarious!! Enjoy!

Boredom, oranges, and everything else in my head

2008-12-19T03:47:00.006-07:00

So apparently since my blog entries have been so bitter lately, I'm going to write about something else tonight. Although it might come off sounding bitter too...I was going to write about how I'm here at work at 4 am and really really bored, and yet putting off things that I need to do and I'm eating a couple mandarin oranges but the first one seems to have like a million seeds!! Now while it was quite juicy and perfectly sweet I have a hard time enjoying it because I have to keep spitting out the seeds!!! Grrrr.... Hopefully my next one will be better!
Not much has been going on in my life lately. I'm trying to help Todd and Kath plan their wedding (and since I have so many plans for my own wedding I'm having trouble remembering whose wedding this really is and I'm constantly biting my tongue so I don't plan the whole thing by myself!!) Really its not a problem but I find myself planning my own nuptuals. And once again I'm going to have to get married like 10 times (or at least have 10 vow renewals). I keep coming up with different themes and ideas for receptions and everything.
My new favorite album right now is the new Britney Spears. I know, I know...people think she's crazy. But I don't really. I think she has some severe issues to work out in her life and it doesn't help that she probably feels very lonely for someone always having a million people around her. It sure makes me grateful for the gospel in my life. I'm grateful that I was raised in the home I was and have the parents I have. And while my own life isn't perfect and I certainly have my own issues to work on, I feel that I at least have a foundation of knowledge to figure out how to start working on them and though I feel lost sometimes, I know I'm never alone. I fell sorry for her, but I really do like her new cd! She actually sings in it and it doesn't sound all digitally enhanced like the past couple have.
Well that's about all I can come up with right now....hi-ho-hi-ho, its back to work I go.

New Favorite Quote

2008-12-16T01:15:00.002-07:00

I'm changing my name to Bridget Jones and this is my new favorite quote,

"The only thing worse than one smug married couple, lots of smug married couples."

Finally

2008-12-14T12:29:00.002-07:00

Well it finally happened...Todd and Kathleen are officially engaged!! Yep. I'll try to post the video of the proposal...which was so perfect!! Kath was so surprised it was awesome!! If I can't then you'll just have to see it sometime soon. I'll also get some pictures of them too. I am so excited for them. So hold the date of March 6th!!!

SOLD

2008-12-07T20:45:00.002-07:00

Alrighty....all the VHS tapes are sold. THanks so much!! I'll get them to you all ASAP.

FOR SALE

2008-12-01T20:44:00.004-07:00

So while setting up our Christmas decorations we came across some old VHS tapes that were put away under the stairs. Since we don't watch them anymore we are trying to get rid of them and will sell them for $1 each or $45 for all of them. They are listed below...let me know if you're interested in any or all of them.

Disney:
A Little Princess
The Great Mouse Detective
Gordy
Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs
Bambi
Free Willy
The Big Green
Aladdin
The Little Mermaid
Lion King 2
Tarzan
Beauty and the Beast 2
Fantasia
Hercules
Free Willy 2
Beauty and the Beast
Jungle Book
Anastasia
Pinocchio
The Lion King
Sing Along Songs—Pocahontas “Colors of the Wind”
OTHER:
Black Beauty
The Puzzle Place
Babysitters Club
Harriet the Spy
Les Miserables
Dances with Wolves
The Emperor’s New Clothes
President Abraham Lincoln
Cinderella
The Princess Who had never laughed
Little Heroes
Anne of Avonlea
Koluk & Kiska 2
Solo
Benjamin Franklin
Religious:
Thurl- Forward with New Power
Daniel (animated bible story)
Miracles of Love Music Video (animated scriptures)
Music Video form the living scriptures (animated)
Living Scriptures:
The Conversion of Alma the Younger
Nephi and the Brass Plates
Journey to the Promised Land
John the Baptist (animated bible stories)

PS....I accidently deleted all my links to your blogs, so if you would be so nice as to let me know your address, that would be sooo great so I can re-add them!! THANKS!!!

Ankle Update

2008-11-30T22:11:00.003-07:00

Here's a quick update about my lovely ankle injury. The good news is that I didn't break my foot like originally suspected! Thank goodness!!! The bad news is the I do have a torn ligament.

:( But its not fully ruptured so that it also good news. This means no surgery. Its still slightly swollen and sore. It probably will take a good 3-6 weeks for it to be back to normal, but I can at least walk now...with it wrapped up or with a brace on. Still no surgery, no crutches, or cast, or boot..that is all good news to me. For now I guess gel ice packs and ibuprofen will be my best friends.

PS...Yes Melissa, I wish Edward would have been there to carry me into the theatre instead of me hobbling like a dork....except that if Edward would have been there he would have caught me before I fell ;)

My Thanksgiving Day Narrative

2008-11-28T07:28:00.004-07:00

So yesterday wasn't as bad as I thought it might be. I actaully enjoyed dinner this year, probably mostly to the fact that I hadn't eaten all day so by the time Thanksgiving dinner actually came around I was starving. So I ate and ate. Good thing I haven't cancelled my gym membership, eh? So the first part of the day was quite good. My mom, Tate, Holly, and I had plans in the afternoon to go see Twilight. My cousins decided to join us (my dad stayed home to take a nap while we were all gone) so we went to the Megaplex in Ogden. So on our way in, I was walking down some stairs in the parking garage and when I got to the bottom, there was this little inch lip on the sidewalk, well thanks to my stupid shoes that have no support, my ankle rolled, I felt a pop and went down. My foot hurt so bad, but I wasn't going to miss the movie, so I limped my way in, crying the whole way, barely making it. The theatre staff gave me some ice and I sat through Twilight icing my ankle and trying to pay attention to the movie and not my pain. I made it through the movie, which wasn't as good as I predicted, but that I loved anyway. (I'm more excited for #2, which will have a bigger budget and I suspect much better). After the movie I could barely walk, but I slowly made it back to my car. Tate had to drive because I couldn't. When I got home I iced it again and put it up. I've rolled my ankles before, but nothing as compared to this time. After contemplating whether to suck it up and go to work like I was supposed to or call in sick and go get it checked out, I decided to call in, but wait to see if it got worse. So here I am at 7:30am, typing this blog up. I didn't sleep really well all night because it was aching all night long. Now I'm deciding if I need to go to the doctor or not. Not a lot of swelling, but its been up all night. It still hurts horribly though, not in my ankle, but in my metatarsals where I felt the pop. So I guess for now, I'll just watch it, so don't be surprised if you see me hobbling around with or without a foot cast on. ;)

Thought on Thanksgiving

2008-11-27T00:43:00.003-07:00

So I'm not trying to sound like an ornery bitter person here. But as much as I really do like Thanskgiving...I really could do without all the food. I mean, its a lot of preparation and time, to sit down for a 30 minute meal, where I eat my normal amount (sometimes less). I realize Thanksgiving is technically not about the food. But here I am 1 am...still making food for tomorrow...no- for later today. :( So as grateful as I am for family and all the other things I should be grateful for...Thanksgiving really is not my most favorite holiday.

Service Project!

2008-11-09T22:08:00.003-07:00

So its beginning to be that time of year where everyone starts showing their love and charity around the community. Well here I am asking for your help already!

The young single adults of my stake are in the process of collecting items to be put into Humanitarian Kits. So if you are willing to help to those in need, start early this season and help us out!!! I'll even personally drive to your home to pick up the items (you don't need to use your own gas, I'll use mine!!!!!)

These are the items we are in need of:

Bars of Soap (must be 3 1/2 by 5 oz size)

Hand Towels (15 X 25 inches, no dishtowels or washcloths)

Our goal as YSA is to create 500 kits, so any of those two things that you might be willing to help out with would be soooo great! If you have any questions, please call me!!! THANKS SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP!!!

Tomato Soup Spice Cake

2008-11-04T08:53:00.004-07:00

I FOUND IT!!! So while I was on my mission, a member made this cake. And it was the most delicious cake I had ever tasted in my life! When I asked what made it so moist and yummy she said.."Tomato Soup." I couldn't believe that tomato soup was actually in the cake because you couldn't taste anything like tomatoes. But I absolutely loved it!! So I'm dumb and never asked for the recipe. But lately I've been craving it soo badly. Then last night I caught the end of some show on Food Network and they talked about Tomato Soup Spice Cake, but didn't give a recipe. Well I researched online....didn't take long....and I found it!! So I suggest (even if it sound gross) that you all try this delicious recipe. Not only does it taste divine, but it also will make your home smell all holiday-ish. Enjoy!

Tomato Soup Spice Cake

2 c. flour

1 1/3 c. sugar

4 tsp. baking powder

1 1/2 tsp. ground allspice

1 tsp. baking soda

1 tsp. cinnamon

1/2 tsp. ground cloves

1 can tomato soup

1/2 c. vegetable shortening

2 eggs

1/4 c. water

Preheat oven to 350. Grease 13 X 9 pan. Mix all dry ingredients, then add soup, shortening, eggs and water. Beat on low until mixed, then for 4 min on high speed. Bake for 40 min (or until done). Cool completely before frosting.

Frosting

1 pkg. cream cheese

2 Tbs. milk

1 tsp. vanilla

1 pkg (160z) powdered sugar

Cream 1st three ingredients together, then slowy add sugar and beat until smooth.

Capturing A Legacy

2008-10-22T20:11:00.005-06:00

So I've had a few requests lately about my prices for wedding videos and such. So I'm in the process of making either a blog or website for my company. Websites are a pain in the butt to design I've decided, so I'm leaning towards a blog. But if any of you know how to a design a website and knows a place where I can have one for free or really really cheap, let me know and we'll talk! Anyway, until then questions can be sent to my email.... Capturingalegacy@yahoo.com.

Also, sorry for no posts lately...I really do lead a boring and uneventful life. Of course I could have this whole long spill about how I want to just be done with school, how my wire from my braces is making a nice hole in my cheek and the orthodontist is out of town, my biggest pet peeves lately, how I can't find my stethoscope anywhere!!!, how I HATE when people feel the need to give me advice on getting married (when they themselves are only 19 years old and have no clue what life really is), having no money, etc. Now that I'm reading this back it seems like I'm really having a crappy life. Just so you know, my life isn't all bad, its really good actually. I'm not trying to sound pessimistic there. I love my life and wouldn't change it for anything...except the being done with school part and having no money part. But I guess I just need to get used to both of those because they aren't going to change anytime soon!!!

Girls Night Out

2008-10-13T20:31:00.005-06:00

Friday night, Mom, Holly, and I went to the Reba & Kelly concert at the ESA. It was sooooooo much fun!!!!! I was personally kind of skeptical about how good it could be because Kelly and Reba are totally opposite types of music. But surprisingly it was seriously amazing. Their differences were only compliments to each other. The harmonies were beautiful. Many of the songs I found myself having the chills from the sound and emotion they were able to portray. So these are some pics from our fun night!

For those of you who have ever watched the sitcom "Reba"...which is so hilarious....we had a surprise visit from "Barbara Jean"!! We were laughing sooo hard!

Family Pictures

2008-10-07T14:16:00.004-06:00

We recently had family pictures done. I actually was the photographer...haha. It was certainly an adventure trying to keep everyone of your own family happy. I thought I'd just share some.

Mission Reunion

2008-10-04T20:58:00.006-06:00

So Friday I had my first mission reunion. My mission president, President Godfrey, just got home in July, so we kind of had a little reunion at his homecoming. But Friday we had the "official" reunion. It was so much fun to see everyone that I had such a good time with out in Tennessee. Pretty much everyday I think of my mission, so I really enjoyed getting to gether with old companions, fellow missionaries, and all the friends I made. Reminiscing and laughing (who knew the president was so hilarous!) But I was dumb and forgot my camera, so instead of sharing reunion pictures, I thought I'd share a few of my favorite moments on the mission!! Enjoy!

At the MTC...my favorite companion and elders in our district!!

Me, Sister Brown, and Sid Collier (my first baptism). An amazing man, that gave up EVERYTHING, including his life, for the gospel.

FABREEZE!!! A DEFINATE MUST-HAVE in the south, thanks to all the tobacco smoke.

Me and Sister Bills and Kody. He was just an awesome 16 year old that was baptized. He was always smiling!

Road kill!! Gross...a typical scene.

Sigh...I miss the green (sorry i couldn't get the picture turned right)

The aftermath of getting caught in a downpour while tracting.

Good News!

2008-09-30T15:37:00.003-06:00

This week I got a new job!! YEAH!! I wasn't really actively looking for a new job, but I was keeping and eye out for anything that might interest me. Why was I looking for a new job? Well when you're only getting maybe 10 hours a week, then its probably time to start looking for something that is a little better. So what is my new job?

I'm going to be a CNA in Maternity!! What fun! I get to hold and cuddle little newborns all night long! And of course, I'll help with the new moms as well. My duties will be anything from helping in the nursery to bathing babies or helping with breast feeding or whatever is needing to be done to help moms and babies be happy!

I am so excited! This actually works out very well, because the job is nights. So to be full-time I only have to work 3 nights a week. I can go to school during the day. Plus, since I am considering becoming an OB/GYN, this will put me on a good path. At least it will give me some experience dealing with that kind of stuff. Anyway, just thought I'd let you all know of my good news! YEAH!

The Single Life

2008-09-22T13:06:00.010-06:00

I don't know how many of you read the main Ensign article from August...I can probably safely bet that not many of you did because you're all married and it was about being young and single in the church. I highly suggest you read it even (or especially) if you are married.
I know that to many of you I am not that old, but in "Mormon World"...I'm only 9 months away from being a menace to society. Anyway....there were some very good suggestions to the married population of how to support singles and give them hope or how to help them stay positive in a world full of cynicism about marriage.
Honestly, this is one thing I've found that I'm becoming quite good at....being cynical about marriage/relationships.....and really about all of the mormon culture. To illustrate my point, let me share a story that happened not too long ago.
I had come home one sunday, from West Jordan, to go to my parents ward. In Relief Society, they welcomed me "back", asked where I was living then and what I was up to. I thought that was good. I was happy and enjoying life. It was good. Then after church....a woman came up to me and said "Where are you living now?" I answered, "West Jordan. I love it out there." To which she replied.. "Well don't worry, my son didn't get married until he was 28." My initial reaction was to play it off. But I couldn't believe that someone would go out of their way to say that! So instead of hitting her, like I really wanted, I just walked away and let my mom finish the conversation.
Its little insensitive comments like that that makes young single adults feel like crap or whatever. Who said I was worried about it!!? I'm certainly not. Of course I would love to be married and have the opportunity to start a family, but that is not the path Heavenly Father has in store for me at the moment. I HATE that in the mormon culture, if you aren't married before 23 years old, then something must be wrong with you AND/OR you are just terribly worried that it will never happen.
The Ensign article said last month, "When friends or family send messages to singles that they should "try harder", that they aren't doing enough to promote dating opportunities, or that they should think about happier things, singles may feel blocked rather than helped in their efforts to move forward to positive goals and interests." I would like to add my AMEN to that. In the article it also says, "Getting married is not the sole definition of success for singles." Amen to that too.
I know I'm going off on a tangent here, but as I read the article it really struck me that probably more NON-SINGLES need to read it instead of singles. I would also like to say once more, while I agree whole hearted with this article, my ornery-ness (is that a word) about it, doesn't mean I'm completely happy being single. I do hope to find a man to marry and start a family with. Some days I wish it was sooner than later. But I do know that I'm in a place where God wants and needs me to be, that is no ones business but my own and God's. But...while I'm happy with my life...it doesn't mean that I'm not open to being set up or having help in that department. Lol. So thanks for being supportive and for all that everyone does for me. I really appreciated your love and friendships.

A word about school

2008-09-12T07:43:00.005-06:00

This semester I'm taking some more difficult classes that are the beginning of my medical career. Now I'm pretty smart...some days....but I've struggled with school the last few years. And this semester is no exception. Now....I just have to vent for a minute because this semester I'm taking Human Anatomy and the first day of class we're told that 10% of the class will get an A, 60% probably won't pass, and the rest will sqeak by! Now what the &*#! am I supposed to take from that. This is a hard class...well duh! But I just think that maybe it wouldn't be so hard if the flippin' class in one test didn't include half of the body.

Seriously, the first test covers not only basic anatomy, but tissues/membranes, the integumentary(skin) system & the skeletal system. Now that doesn't really seem like a lot, but if any of you have every taken this class, you will realize that the skeletal system alone covers like 4 Chapters!!! And this isn't just knowing which bone is which (which is what I already know and like to know) but it covers everything about bones.....all the way down to the atoms that make up bones.
I know I know...I'm going to be a doctor so I need to know this stuff, but maybe the class wouldn't be failed so much (and retaken so much, which means more people paying tuition AGAIN to a place that is ripping you off anyway) if they would make it like a year long class that covers the same amount of information in a longer time period, which would make it easier to learn plus easier to retain.
Anyway, I think I'm just stressed and frustrated with the whole college experience right now and am thinking what the h@!# did I get myself into! Hopefully it will get better....or worse. I'm not sure which. Okay, I'm done now!

Tomatoes EVERYWHERE!!

2008-09-03T10:25:00.002-06:00

This year my dad had a goal to fill every bottle and every space in our food storage. So he started with tomatoes. How many plants did he plant? 4? No. 10? NO! 20?! NOPE!....40 tomato plants!!!!! Needless to say we have tomatoes coming out our ears. Last weekend mom and dad bottled many tomatoes, salsa, and tomato juice and last night alone we picked 7 boxes full, and there are plenty still on the vines!!! Its craziness!!! I think our next few

weekends will be full of finishing the canning of them.

Luckily we go through our bottled tomatoes and salsa like its going to run away...so instead of running out this year we might actaully make it til next fall with some left over!!!(I'm praying it freezes soon so that they won't grow anymore!)

One more thing to do....

2008-08-22T11:32:00.004-06:00

So I've been trying to come up with something that I could do that would make me a little more income. After much thought I came up with something I used to do, but haven't done since I haven't lived at home in a while and haven't had a piano so.....I'm going to start teaching piano lessons again. If anyone is interested...young or old...I want to start teaching soon so give me a call. I know a lot of you will think I'm crazy because I'm already way too busy...but I really have missed the piano and hope to fulfill an emptiness I've had since I haven't played as much as I used to! YEAH!

Coming soon.....

2008-08-12T12:12:00.003-06:00

I've been informed that I need to update my blog, well I know I haven't updated anything in a long time, but things have been sooo sooo crazy with me lately. So I promise that there is a quite a bit that I will post here sometime soon!!

Coming soon....
More family vacation pictures
My San Diego Trip
Carrie's Wedding
Any other info I feel so inclined to give!